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Sunday, July 14, 2013

Fresno July 12th: Services for David Denny Senior

As the Denny family knows, David Denny (Little David’s father, my great uncle) passed away on July 5th, 2012. Our family gathered for the services and memorial of this amazing father that Little David and Tracy loved and respected along with the many people in Fresno who loved this man. The black angus by the hotel was his spot to hang out and talk to people and many that have known him. Great Uncle David always had a strong family in Fresno and I think that is the most important thing that they were here to celebrate his life in the place he used to be. That is something beautiful in itself. He is survived by his two children David and Tracy who are such good people and with an amazing group of family and friends alike.


The services were absolutely beautiful. My auntie sang her heart out and so well that I cried both times during the services. My father was one of the pallbearers which made me both surprised and happy that he was given the honor and opportunity to really participate in this. I can’t say enough about the beauty of this service and the honors that were placed upon him. Since he served in the army, he was given his honors and salutes and the flag that was draped over his coffin was folded and given to Tracy and Little David. Tracy spoke in front of everyone and so did another member. The church was almost packed. It was so amazing to see everyone that cared for my great uncle even though I didn’t know him. Sometimes I wish I did know him a little bit.

After the services, we had the reception at Black Angus which was packed and it was just amazing. My great uncle had a plaque on the table where he sat as his normal seat for the last five years that he had been going there. That is one devoted man. All the family and friends talked and really just met and had fun. Once the drinks were flowing, it was even better and everyone just had an amazing time. It was the most amazing thing that I could experience with my family and I don’t regret any of the fun that I had with them. I loved hanging out with everyone and talking. I made new contacts with some family members that I didn’t know as well and reconnected with some members that I hadn’t seen in a while. I was glad that our family got together and we stood strong together no matter what. When it came to stepping up to the plate, I believe everyone did in their own way and that was good.





My offering of condolences to the immediate family:

Little David and Tracy, I am so proud of you both for being as strong as you can be through this really tough time. I want you to know that I care and love you two very much. I have but to offer my condolences for the loss of your father and though I did not know him well, I do believe he was something special to the family from the way that my father spoke of him through his stories. My sympathies are truly with you for at least you were there. Times will be difficult without him but I do believe that up there in heaven, he is watching over you and blessing your family as much as he can. Even with him gone, your strength of a family is still there and that is the best thing to maintain. Always keep the memory of him close to your heart and his wisdom and kindness will always still be there though physically he is not. 

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